Repaying debts outside of bankruptcy
First things first
In making a plan to get control of your financial situation, make sure that
you pay the bills that are the most important, not necessarily the ones who call and threaten
you the most.
For most families, housing and transportation are the most important
expenses they have:
get evicted or foreclosed, and you are homeless;
have your car repossessed and you can't get to work
Pay these expenses first.
Deal with debt collectors
Don't be intimidated into paying unsecured
credit card debt before housing, transportation and taxes. When
all is said and done, credit card collectors don't have easily available
ways to MAKE you pay; they rely on irritation or fear to GET you
to pay voluntarily. Don't be swayed from your plan to put first things
first.
Collectors rely on your ignorance about collection proceedings to create
fear, shame, and insecurity. Unsecured creditors can't take money from
your account or seize your assets without suing you first and getting
a judgment. You have to get notice of such a suit and an opportunity
to contest the charge.
Creditors sometimes threaten to "send you to collections"
as though it was a real place, full of horrors. It just means they are
handing the problem off to someone else, who has no more real power
to take your assets than the speaker does. Don't be stampeded.
The Fair
Debt Collection Practices Act gives you a right to tell collectors
not to contact you. Some states have similar laws. The California
statute applies to the creditor itself as well as any third party
collector.
Know your
rights about debt collection. There are some real
bad
actors out there.
Be cautious about debt consolidation loans or
services
Whole industries have sprung up to "help" the financially stressed
recover. Some of their "help" you are better off without.
See our discussion of the dangers of some
debt counseling.
Avoid credit repair scams
Another group of scammers prey on the fixation of consumers with their
credit reports and want you to pay them to "fix" your credit
report. The things that can be done legally to correct credit reports,
you can do yourself; what they propose to do may well be illegal or
ineffective.
Read the FTC's tips
on credit repair
Read Elizabeth Warren's book All Your
Worth.
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