How will filing bankruptcy change your life? Rachel Foley over at BankruptcyLawNetwork pondered about how bankruptcy might not change clients lives if they continue to confuse “wants” with “needs”.

My short, irreverent answer to that question from clients is that they will sleep better at night. They will experience a drop off in telephone calls from collectors and their mail will shrink in volume. The more serious answer has to reflect how they got to my office to file bankruptcy.

When the driving force was gambling or some other irresponsible behavior, I tell them that I can dig them out of this hole with bankruptcy relief, but I can’t save them from a recurrence of that kind of spending. When the driving force is one of those things beyond their control, like job loss, divorce or illness, I can be far more certain that they will cherish a fresh start. pay for insurance or savings rather than minimum payments on credit cards, and savor relief from crippling debt.